Reactive Responses

Referenced scripture: Proverbs 15:1

A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare. – Proverbs 15:1

What we say matters but how we say it matters just as much according to Proverbs 15:1. I recently found myself talking with God and I asked him to change me and that I didn’t want my actions or words to be “reactive” of those around me. Immediately Proverbs 15:1 was placed into my spirit and He showed me that many of the words I say are reactive and deflected back to others with the same velocity that they used. If they answer me with harsh sarcasm then I hit them back with the same. If they use condescending tones then I match it back at them bit by bit. Why? Why, do I do this? I can’t truly answer that for everyone but I think Proverbs 15:1 is a great reminder that we all need to really try to remember especially when interacting with others. What are you attempting to imply with your words and your tone? Are you even trying to imply anything or is it simply that you may need to adjust a few things so others don’t take things the wrong way? We’ve all done it, we'll lash out at someone after they’ve asked a question or as we call it “bite their head off”. So that being said, let’s remember what Proverbs says regarding how we answer (and interact) with people. Christianity is a process and we are all running this race together and how we talk to each other really does matter.

Take Care & God Bless,

-E